How do you judge people you have never met in person? it is a simple question, but there are many answers. What is yours?
How to judge a person.
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The best answer is:
You, me or no one is worthy enough to judge anyone. Judgyjudgenstien LOL
You, me or no one is worthy enough to judge anyone. Judgyjudgenstien LOL
how do you know, if you have never judged any one?
You can judge some one you have never met. I have not met Joe Biden, but I can judge him by what he does and what he says, which maybe good or maybe bad? I have never met The Droid but I can judge him by what he has written. (no offence 
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With all do respect, Im not sure where you get this mentality to think you can and have the right to judge anyone at all. Typical human of society thinking he/she has the right to take something upon itself and speculating it has the right to do so.
Judging people is starts with your subconscious, it is based on how you have been treated in the past by others, it is based on how you were brought up and all the experiences you have. So, you get a skewed judgement of people. You don't know me and it doesn't matter what kind of perception you have of me based on judgements? I used to know someone who said, you (addressing me) are an enigma. Its not the first time, someone couldn't figure me out, it happens all the time, people get false impression of me and when they meet me and get to know me they realise they made a huge mistake. Like I said it happens ALL the time. You have seen plenty of replies that I've written so you have more information but its still nowhere near enough to even begin to get a picture of me in your head And that's all I have to say on the subject, step into the world of counselling and psychology. Here's a little more, I've never used a pick up line ever and I've gone home with women. When people meet me they talk about personal stuff because I make them feel at ease by just being me. I don't change who I am depending on the social circle I am in, I am who I am. I can talk to anyone from any walk of life and always have been able to. I used to be a people person, try to please people all the time, trying to prove myself all the time. I stopped. I realised that the only person I need to prove anything to was ME. I do things that make me and my family happy, I treat everyone the same, I talk to people in the same way. Straight shooting no beating around the bush crap. I don't tell stories to explain something. I have never been a story teller. Oh and one more thing....how can you judge someone that has multiple personality issues? I bet you had already judged me, where there is more than just me! There are 3 others. Go figure
And that's all I have to say on the subject, step into the world of counselling and psychology. Here's a little more, I've never used a pick up line ever and I've gone home with women. When people meet me they talk about personal stuff because I make them feel at ease by just being me. I don't change who I am depending on the social circle I am in, I am who I am. I can talk to anyone from any walk of life and always have been able to. I used to be a people person, try to please people all the time, trying to prove myself all the time. I stopped. I realised that the only person I need to prove anything to was ME. I do things that make me and my family happy, I treat everyone the same, I talk to people in the same way. Straight shooting no beating around the bush crap. I don't tell stories to explain something. I have never been a story teller. Oh and one more thing....how can you judge someone that has multiple personality issues? I bet you had already judged me, where there is more than just me! There are 3 others. Go figure
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After all that I do understand Droid. But I still do not have the right to judge you in a public forum or have the right to convince others either based on my perception of you. Personal reflection of a person is another thing and no one can stop you from doing that.
Im out on this subject now. Ive said what I wanted to say.
Im out on this subject now. Ive said what I wanted to say.
Judging people is starts with your subconscious, it is based on how you have been treated in the past by others, it is based on how you were brought up and all the experiences you have. So, you get a skewed judgement of people. You don't know me and it doesn't matter what kind of perception you have of me based on judgements? I used to know someone who said, you (addressing me) are an enigma. Its not the first time, someone couldn't figure me out, it happens all the time, people get false impression of me and when they meet me and get to know me they realise they made a huge mistake. Like I said it happens ALL the time. You have seen plenty of replies that I've written so you have more information but its still nowhere near enough to even begin to get a picture of me in your head
It is good to know that there is a person behind a name, I judge people by their knowledge and experience as that is what I need from them. when a person goes for a job interview, they are going there to be judged to see if they are capable of doing the work or not. If any one has been in prison? it was the judge that sent them.